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MEET PETE - E21 - ABOUT ONE VERY SERIOUS THING



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Mark:

You know, Pete, I envy you. Really, I do.

Pete:

What? Why?

Mark:

I wish I had your sharp sense of humour. You are a real laugh. It seems so easy for you to crack jokes. When I try telling jokes they usually flop.

Pete:

Thanks, Mark. That's very nice of you to say that. You know, I've always valued humour. The timely and appropriate use of it can be a great asset. But there is a downside to it, too.

Mark:

What do you mean?

Pete:

Yes, I believe it was Winston Churchill who once observed "Humour is a very serious thing". Humour can be a two edged sword - it can make or break a day in an instant.

Mark:

Tell me about it. The story of my life. Can you give me some advice how to use humour to my advantage?

Pete:

Sure, with pleasure. Let's start with "don'ts". It's easy to confuse humour with arrogance when you use it to humiliate or intimidate others. Don't use it to mock, belittle, undermine or attack others - especially if you are among people who are lower in hierarchy than you.

Mark:

So, you are saying that I should not poke fun at people, right?

Pete:

Yes, that's what I mean. On the other hand, people will really appreciate it if you can poke fun at yourself. True, it takes confidence and self-assurance. When managers use authentic self-deprecating humour, which in turn benefits others, they are able to turn difficult moments into unforgettable lessons.

Mark:

True, good humour can bring people closer, but poor humour can be a very strong repellent.

Pete:

Yes, exactly, I couldn't have put it better myself. I often try to use humour to lift people up, not to put them down. It's important to remember not to laugh at people, but with them. And one last piece of advice - don't force it. Humour should come naturally. If you are trying too hard to be funny your humour will fall on deaf ears.

Mark:

And I'll make a joke of myself. OK, got it.

Pete:

Exactly. It's all about having a GSOH.

Mark:

GSOH? What's this - another American acronym, isn't it?

Pete:

Well, yes, it is - It all starts with a good sense of humour. I strongly believe that it is a skill that can be cultivated and honed. Developing a good sense of humour is particularly important as the face of work is now in a constant state of change. At the same time using humour does not mean work isn't taken seriously, it is just taken lightly.  My experience teaches me that people with GSOH display high levels of tolerance - to each other and to workplace challenges.

Mark:

Won't argue with that. To recap on that topic, what you are saying is that it's important to:

  • Think of The Message: Ask yourself what the underlying message of my joke is. Am I using humour to say something that I wouldn't say to someone without the joke attached?
  • When In Doubt, Leave It Out: If I'm not sure how a joke will be received, it's best not to tell it.
  • Develop my own GSOH: I should work on my own approach to humour.

Pete:

Exactly. It helps to remember the advantages of a GSOH. It's been found that it can be a good stress-reliever, reducing job stress, boosting morale, bringing people closer, and perhaps even warding off burnout.

 

TASK: LANGUAGE WORK
Match the words and expressions to their definitions.

1. to be a real laugh

a) to fail, to be a disaster

2. to crack jokes

b) to frighten and threaten people, to make them less confident to do something

3. to flop

c) very unpleasant and making people want to leave

4. to ward off burnout

d) to be ignored by people who hear it

5. to fall on deaf ears

e) somebody who likes to joke about people

6. self-deprecating

f) someone who is very sociable and fun to be with

7. repellent

g) a disadvantage of something

8. to poke fun at somebody

h) to tell jokes

9. to intimidate

i) making your own abilities and achievements less important

10. downside

j) to protect yourself from something bad

 KEY: 1f 2h 3a 4j 5d 6i 7c 8e 9b 10g

 

 

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Mariusz Mirecki - Mariusz jest absolwentem Nauczycielskiego Kolegium Języków Obcych przy Uniwersytecie Warszawskim. Od 1995 roku pracuje jako lektor języka angielskiego specjalizując się w kursach Business English. W ACT obecnie zajmuje stanowisko Senior Teacher, wspierając na co dzień w pracy zespół metodyczny. Pasjonuje się strategiami uczenia się, mind-mapami oraz inteligencjami wielorakimi. Na zajęciach chętnie wykorzystuje elementy teatralne. Od kilku lat prowadzi warsztaty metodyczne dzieląc się wiedzą z innymi lektorami i trenerami języka angielskiego.





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Lesson 199: FANTASTIC ANIMAL FACTS
Lesson 198: CONTAINERS (FOOD)
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Lesson 195: LOOKING LEFT, THINKING RIGHT ?
Lesson 194: ENGLISH SPELLING SIMPLIFIED
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Lesson 192: FACEBOOK STORY
Lesson 191: TOP TIPS FOR GIVING PRESENTATIONS
Lesson 190: SECRETS OF SLEEPERS
Lesson 189: YOUR USE OF PRONOUNS REVEALS YOUR PERSONALITY
Lesson 188: DON`T WORRY, BE HAPPY
Lesson 187: MANAGING STRESS
Lesson 186: HORACE AND ROGER`S HR CHATS - THE CONFERENCE
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Lesson 184: HORACE AND ROGER`S HR CHATS - THE GENERATION GAP
Lesson 183: HORACE AND ROGER`S HR CHATS - WHAT`S THE POINT OF HR?
Lesson 182: HORACE AND ROGER`S HR CHATS - PHILOSOPHICALLY SPEAKING
Lesson 181: HORACE AND ROGER`S HR CHATS - ACCRUED HOLIDAYS
Lesson 180: HORACE AND ROGER`S HR CHATS - CALIBRATING POTENTIAL
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Lesson 177: HORACE AND ROGER`S HR CHATS - NEW YEAR`S RESOLUTIONS
Lesson 176: HORACE AND ROGER`S HR CHATS - SPHERICAL OBJECTS
Lesson 175: HORACE AND ROGER`S HR CHATS - THE COMMUNICATION PLAN
Lesson 174: HORACE AND ROGER`S HR CHATS - TRAINING OR TRAININGS?
Lesson 173: HORACE AND ROGER`S HR CHATS - A MATTER OF POLICY
Lesson 172: A LONG COLD WINTER
Lesson 171: HORACE AND ROGER`S HR CHATS - TOILET TALK
Lesson 170: HORACE AND ROGER`S HR CHATS - THE NEW BOSS
Lesson 169: HORACE AND ROGER`S HR CHATS - ANGER MANAGEMENT
Lesson 168: HORACE AND ROGER`S HR CHATS - MOBBING AND BULLYING
Lesson 167: HORACE AND ROGER`S HR CHATS - WORD TRANSFORMATIONS
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Lesson 165: HORACE AND ROGER`S HR CHATS - TOP DOG
Lesson 164: HORACE AND ROGER`S HR CHATS - A SOURCE OF CONFUSION
Lesson 163: HORACE AND ROGER`S HR CHATS - TO BE OR NOT TO BE (AT WORK)
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Lesson 161: GONE TO THE DOGS
Lesson 160: MEET PETE - E26 - SAVE THE DAY
Lesson 159: COUNTING SHEEP
Lesson 158: HOLIDAY TIME
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Lesson 156: Meet Pete – E24 – Don’t be a jerk
Lesson 155: THE WALLS HAVE EARS
Lesson 154: FOOD FOR THOUGHT
Lesson 153: Meet Pete – E22 – The New Game Plan
Lesson 152: HERE COMES THE SUMMER
Lesson 151: Meet Pete – E23 – Succession Meeting
Lesson 150: I TAKE IT ALL BACK
Lesson 149: MEET PETE - E21 - ABOUT ONE VERY SERIOUS THING
Lesson 148: CHARACTER
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Lesson 146: A WINTER OF DISCONTENT
Lesson 145: MEET PETE - E19 - JUDGE A MAN BY HIS QUESTIONS
Lesson 144: SPRING IS IN THE AIR
Lesson 143: LANGUAGE REFRESHER – IDIOMS
Lesson 142: DO YOU GET IT?
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Lesson 140: A ONE HORSE RACE
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Lesson 131: A LETTER TO SANTA
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Lesson 127: USING NEGATIVE QUESTIONS TO PERSUADE
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